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The Self Eye

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A 5-step framework to stop self-sabotage and create lasting change, starting from your self-concept.

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Health

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The complete foundational text on how to stop self-sabotage and transform any area of your life in 5 steps.

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An interactive manual that shows you how to stop self-sabotage and transform any area of your life in 5 steps.

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Jerry A. Horacius, creator of The Self Eye framework for self-mastery

A Message from the Creator

For a long time, I knew what I wanted: a better life, more peace, stronger habits, healthier relationships. And I knew what I should be doing… but I couldn't make myself do it.

Some days I wouldn't even start due to overthinking things I hadn't even begun. Other days I would start strong but give up, sometimes without even knowing when. I felt frustrated with myself. Confused. Ashamed.

Eventually, I realized: nothing was wrong with me. No one ever taught me how to work with my mind — not against it. I built this framework out of those hard-earned lessons, and now I share it with anyone who finds themselves in this situation.

Jerry A. Horacius

What is really going on.

Trying to elevate your profession, income, partnerships, or physical well-being without addressing the subconscious patterns that maintain your current reality can lead to years of stagnation.

This neglect may result in monetary collapse, separation, or serious medical issues.

Apply the principles of the framework of change mastery to gain the tools required to become an master in evolving yourself — without falling into cycles of self-sabotage.

You’ll move past simply gathering insights from different books and courses and begin applying them effectively to spark growth in yourself and those around you.

You possess the same innate capacity as the greatest pioneers, creators, and successful individuals throughout history.

Our framework gives you the power to consciously change any area of your life. Learn about the 5-step process and see who it's for.

The Difference Our Framework Makes

A clear comparison of the transformation you can expect.

Run by unconscious patterns you can't see.

Uncover the 95% of unconscious behaviors that run your life.

Stuck repeating the same destructive patterns.

Break free from harmful cycles that have kept you stuck for years.

Thoughts, feelings, and actions are often in conflict.

Build Emotional, Mental & Behavioral (EMB) alignment.

Making decisions you easily abandon or self-sabotage.

Make unshakable decisions you can't self-sabotage.

Changes don't last because your core identity hasn't shifted.

Build a new identity that sustains your changes.

Success Stories

See what's possible when you use our framework.

"Every couple of weeks for a long time I'd tell myself "okay, THIS is it, new diet starts today." I'd be good for a few weeks, drop maybe 10 pounds, but I was miserable the whole time. Then I'd crack, eat everything in sight, and boom, 15 pounds back on. I was so tired of the whole cycle and honestly just felt like crap all the time. When I went through the framework, I understood the reason that was happening and how I could fix it. Now I don't even think about "being on a diet anymore." It does not feel like a burden anymore; it just feels normal. I have way more energy, I'm sleeping through the night, and the weight? It just started coming off on its own without me forcing myself to stick to the diet. "

- Jessica M.

"I was making decent money, but somehow I was always scraping by at the end of the month. Every time I got a bonus or extra cash, I'd already have it spent in my head buying random stuff I didn't really need. Then after I'd buy it, I'd feel terrible about myself for like a week. Tried to stick to a budget with a budgeting app and learned how to save money, but it was just for a few weeks. It was like I was sabotaging myself on purpose. When I went through the framework, I finally figured out what was actually going on.Now I am actually able to manage myself financially like I never did before. I'm putting money into investments, building something that'll actually last. I'm not out of control anymore. "

- David L.

"I was that person who couldn't say no to anyone. Someone needed help moving? I'd drive an hour each way even though I was dead tired from work. "Friend" needed a favor at the last minute? Sure, I'd drop everything. I thought that's what you had to do to keep people around.But I was miserable. I'd help everyone and then just sit there feeling angry and used. And the worst part? I still felt completely alone. Like nobody actually cared about me; they just needed stuff from me.When I went through the framework, it clicked. I wasn't being a good friend; I was just desperate for people to like me. I had zero boundaries because I thought if I ever said no, everyone would leave.That's what I needed all along."

- Chloe T.

Getting Started is Simple

Your journey to lasting change starts here.

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Understand the "Why"

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Begin Transformation

Choose the program or tool that best fits your goals and start your journey.

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